Adversity, discomfort, struggles, difficulties, challenges, hardships, setbacks - these are gifts in your youth .. it helps you learn how to adjust, deal with, be adaptable and learn how to get inner-strength, for the best of the bunch it makes them so resilient & creates a inner love ❤️ that becomes unbearable - it’s how you actually build the purest form of confidence… and yet the last 30 years of parenting and societial norms have demonized “losing” … this video really matters to me .. it will lead to more people understanding this deep truth and ultimately mean that some young children today will end up happier versus more confused and indifferent! Pls share this with a parent that has a “competitive kid” … IT DOES MATTER - that’s the point! LIFES A GAME - the sooner you learn how to deal with losing the better - and the worst way to deal with losing is by believing “it doesn’t matter” 🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑✅❤️