Helping others is helping yourself by learning through how you teach.
It’s like their problems are unlock keys for various rooms inside the palace of your mind you don’t even know exist, and you can only unlock that room and realise what you know by working with them.
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Shoes are like personalities for women - different identities for different signalling, expressing different aspects through subtle choices in a plausibly deniable way.
Men don’t do this. To men, shoes are just shoes. Sports, work or formality. More functionary than identity - and definitely not sexual.
So basically all the best people are unhinged and all the worst people are unhinged and you need to be able to tell the difference between good unhinged and bad unhinged.
So basically, and I quite literally cannot state this in simpler terms - you as a man should not marry a woman who does not worship you. Totally pointless endeavour.
Also worth saying: you should become a man worthy of such worship.
Anything less from either side is a waste.
If attention means flow of energy, you should be mindful not to neglect yourself. Especially as a man, because women will often be trying to get at that energy via attention seeking - and if they can capture it - take it hostage - you will neglect yourself. Not good. Golden mean!