"I know this guy who uses Claude for dating advice. One day I got curious and put our chats where I flirt with him into Claude Sonnet 4 to see what kind of advice he was getting. Sonnet gave 5/5 advice, no notes. It was all exactly what he needed to hear. But I also know he uses a system prompt to make Claude criticize him and I want to sit him down and say 'Amanda Askell is a better prompt engineer than you, you will submit to Amanda Askell hypnosis.'"