What is the Daoist view of love? It is actually about mutual support, but it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes. This is a very interesting phenomenon; it is completely different from the romanticism found in movies and the West. It represents a more relaxed and harmonious way of interacting, where one acts without action yet achieves everything. In fact, we oppose deliberate pursuit and possession because, in Daoism, true love is respect and mutual independence, not bondage. Just like water nourishes all things, it is not about possession, control, or coercion, and it certainly does not seek to change the other person. However, you should not think that the essence of Daoist love is indifference; it is actually a more transcendent attitude towards the gathering and parting in love, reducing the suffering caused by attachment. This is a deeper insight into the essence of life, where you naturally know how to nurture love and protect intimacy with a heart of non-action. Only then can you truly reach the realm of coexisting with heaven and earth, and becoming one with all things.