Blaming parents will definitely raise angry children, who are good at shifting responsibility onto their kids. Parents say, "This is your fault," and "That is also your fault." When you keep blaming, you are actually creating a version of yourself; you are creating an opposite of yourself. The child will inevitably replicate your behavior; no one can survive under long-term oppression, denial, and blame. At first, the child may not have the energy to bear this responsibility, but over time, they will not be able to hold it anymore, and the responsibility will have to shift back to the parents. This is a basic defensive mechanism of a person. So in the end, within this family, there is mutual blame and shifting of responsibility, everyone is complaining, and everyone pushes all the responsibility onto others, which will become an accepted norm in this family.
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