getting married has been one of the best decisions of my life growing up, i actually didnt meet that many people with successful relationships, and i knew so many families with divorced parents (including mine) truthfully, i was scared, but we decided fk that, we break the norm it's been a beautiful chapter of my life, and we work hard everyday to build on that (working hard doesn't mean it's hard) i know there are some "influencers" who say marriage is blah blah blah, but this is the other side