“I asked chatgpt” “I asked grok” I had two people on the spectrum consulting me at all times

every person is capable of being anxious, avoidant or secure it just depends on the relationship. if someone is insane enough just being around them will make you insane too

steven creech

certain breakups really oneshot people because they trigger all your attachment trauma at once and the pain specifically is about the breakup which becomes a representation of your core personal failure to be loved not the relationship. and there’s a massive difference between most breakups (which suck) and breakups that literally ruin people’s lives for some period of time

tony robbins is just like me fr

anybody in SF want a mostly full bottle of byredo blanche?

returned from trip…. reunited w the dogs

california on film

one weird thing about being a matchmaker is that I have a “hinge phone.” which is exactly what it sounds like and sort of makes me feel like a drug dealer

don’t know why it took me so long to get one