SAHMs are real, tradwives aren't. I'm a young woman and my greatest aspiration in life is to be a wife and mother—I think there are few roles that could possibly be greater than that—and I will say that openly and have for years but I still find the trad stuff dumb and alarming. It will push a certain type of woman—especially women who mostly share my values and preferences—toward abusive relationships (as I have already seen it do offline), and push another type of woman into eschewing marriage and motherhood entirely because leftists have told her that these roles are oppression (derogatory) while trads have also told her that these roles are oppression (positive!). And of course, influencers, podcasters, and commentators will not have to live with the consequences of their words.