Cannot emphasize enough that if it is within your possibility, ´hit it hard´ With ´hitting it hard´ i mean: - relentlessly explore your own mind - turn inside at least a couple of hours a day - read at least a couple of hours a day - try new things, be open to new ideas, travel, do retreats, visit inner masters, explore new things - try all kind of things outside your comfort zone, physically (for example train hard for something), mentally (put yourself in tough situations), energetically (do a darkroom retreat for example), spiritually (go a way alone for a week for example to nature), if you are not creative try to be so for a while, if you really hate being somewhere try to still be at peace there. You get the idea I know this is not easy if you already have a family, responsibility, but even with that, you can still do a daily inner practice in morning and evening For the vast majority of single young persons in this cryptospace, i have only one advise Hit it hard while you still can Stop wasting your life Stop dreaming about change Hit it hard