i hate people with big egos who tries to sound like they don't care or don't just care about winning while they actually do i love people with big egos who are honest about that they just want to win huge difference in these two types of people

it's funny though that people with the biggest egos are those who came with arbitrary cultural rules to not make it okay to become anything, mostly as cope i'd guess cause the best people socially in high school had negative correlation with how well their career ambitions went

which forces normal people with egos to live some role of pretending how little they care about anything they actually care about like just because we try to cancel anyone who cares about anything career, social, or material-wise publicly doesn't mean they stop caring