I didn't expect this post to spark such a heated discussion, so let me explain briefly. This is a question that came up during a discussion with some friends in the group yesterday, as most of them already have children, but I do not. From my current perspective, I choose option 1, though I won't go into the reasons here. On the other hand, it's actually hard to guarantee that my thoughts won't change in the future, as my views may evolve with age, or if I happen to have children later on, my mindset might also shift. But at least for now, my viewpoint remains unchanged. I posted this to see everyone's opinions; choosing option 1 or option 2 is valid, it's just different choices in life. Just like in a market trend, whether you go long or short, you have your own logic. Respect your own logic, and it's all about aligning knowledge with action.