After thinking about it, why do people keep saying that I don't have any empathy ability? I used to be very puzzled, I obviously think I am very kind, I will not cut anyone, not counting the people I am targeted to help, and the public welfare platform has donated hundreds of thousands. Why do they all say I can't empathize. By now, you should know the difference between empathy and kindness. If the other party is miserable in my perception, I am very sympathetic, for example, a person in a remote mountainous area lives a miserable life. I think it was the geography and environment that limited his growth. Let's say someone is sick, and I think it's helpless, so I want to help them. But I have no sympathy at all for the misery outside of my cognition, especially the thousand admonitions. I told my family and my ex-girlfriend not to touch finance, don't do any financial management, I just spend the money I give them. As a result, they still went behind my back to manage money/lend money to others to invest, and finally got deceived, and when I told me, I couldn't feel their feelings at all, but asked them very harshly why they didn't listen to me. In the end, they were even more sad. Because I just keep asking inward, I will talk about my bad things, but I don't like others to comfort me, I just want to review my flaws and make myself better. I have always said that I will not defend my rights if I lose money/be cheated, I will not blame anyone, and all the results are my own choice.