Pointing out others' problems is a very energy-consuming task. Because you not only have to spend energy translating their issues into a language they can understand, but you also need to soothe them and counter their emotions. Ultimately, if you are unsuccessful, the result will inevitably anger the other party and drain yourself. In this world, there is only one best way to advise others: influence rather than trying to persuade, and certainly not to change them.
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