This hits home. I joined my first startup straight out of school. I spent ~$1K (one-fifth of my life savings) to buy my options before we raised any funding. That $1K became ~$80K after acquisition, some of which I used to buy a portion of my Stripe options. At Stripe, the founders offered repeated chances to sell equity. That mattered. Our employees could buy homes, pay off debt, early retire. The founder-employee social contract is everything. Equity will never be perfectly fair — but there must be trust that founders, VCs, and employees are aligned. Employees don’t get a seat at the acquisition table. Founders do. They need to use that leverage on behalf of their people.
Michelle Lim
Michelle Lim29.7.2025
I was founding engineer, like my friend Prem. This is how I think about the founder-employee social contract, now that I’m a founder. Founders must recognize that financial scales are wildly different between ourselves and employees. For example, when I joined a company as first engineer, I had to pay five figures just to early exercise all my equity. I was a new grad, and any salary bump was game-changing. In contrast, a founder with a few years of career experience typically has more savings and doesn't have to pay to obtain their equity. In big acquisitions, liquidation for a founder can be the difference between being a billionaire and a very rich millionaire. For an employee it’s the difference in whether their student loans are paid out, whether they can rent a bigger apartment, or whether they can become a homeowner. Founders hold the cards in acquisitions and we should advocate for employees to be paid out. Employees are a privilege. They are betting their career and wealth on us. We have to honor that and look out for our people.
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