19 raw lessons to not mess up your life from Mark Manson on Modern Wisdom: 1. Set better boundaries. Say no more often. 2. Focus on yourself first. You can’t help others if you’re not okay. 3. Growth feels uncomfortable. If you’re not struggling, you’re not improving. 4. You can choose to not be afraid anymore. Fear is often a habit, not a rule. 5. Stop pretending to be someone you’re not. Authenticity is magnetic. 6. The right relationships make your life better, not worse. If someone destroys your mental health, they’re not your person. 7. Start before you feel ready. No one really knows what they’re doing at the start. 8. Happiness comes from progress, not perfection. 9. Learn to trust people more. Cynicism is a shield, but it also keeps out connection. 10. Kill your ego. Humility is a superpower. Which lesson hits home for you?